Code Switching to Survive in Conservative Statess
This week we ended up visiting some family in the deep red states in a small town of 200. From explaining our adventure to discussing code switching for queer people. It was a very different vibe then we’re used to, but it also brought up a topic of code switching and how queer people survive and thrive by blending in when needed.
Flooding our Basements at Dore Alley!
From flooding our basements while getting nailed, to reasons you shouldn't wear deodorant to Dore Alley. We just had a long ass weekend full of fun, leather and all sorts of cute sex parties. Did we see you at Dore Alley or will we see you there next year?
IML Mishaps and Kinks to Work Out - International Mr Leather Contest 2023
International Mr Leather, aka IML is a yearly conference, contest and leather kink weekend that hosts the many kinksters from around the world all competing for the crown. While we've been been attending for decades, this year there was a bit of controversy and kinks (pun intended) that made for an odd event. We went, as we always do as vendors for Mr S Leather and we found ourselves leaving with many many conflicting opinions, but also many sexy stories. Listen on in and let us know what you thought about IML if you attended.
EP 171 - TikTok Kink Test Called us Vanilla?!
Now we’ve taken this Kink and BDSM test before… but we tried it again to see if our kink tastes have changed or if we just suck at taking kinky tests. Join Daddy and Amp as we redo and see how kinky we are!
EP 170 - Masturbation Myths
From breaking dicks to the best lube. Todays we talk with Sexologist, Therapist and expert GLORAI BRAME!
EP 169 - The Death of the Porn Star
We get asked about our perspectives daily about porn, the industry and where it's going, but one convo we have every so often is if Porn Stars even "exist" anymore in the wave of onlyfans and content creation. From the ethics, sites like PornHub, basics and BEST practices!
EP 168 - Going To Texas for a Kink Event - Austin Kink Weekend!
While Texas may be a volatile environment at the moment for queer individuals, especially drag queen performers and trans identified peeps, we just attended a kink event weekend in the heart of Texas. From Leather to Sex Parties to smaller kink events, what did we think of it all?And is EVERYTHYING bigger in Texas?!
EP 167 - Lions, Tigers and Bear Hoods OH MY! Leather Crafting with Scrap Yard Leather
Lions and Tigers and Bear kink hoods, OH MY! Anything is possible in The Scrap Yard, because one person’s scraps, is another person’s treasure. Today we discuss leatherworking, building pet play hoods, how to ethically consume kinky gear and goods and the effect of mass production and affordable gear with the Scrap Yard Leather Boys!
EP 166 - Ending Up At Different Sex Convention - CLAW and SMOKEOUT
This week we're not just talking about ONE convention, but TWO!!! From Claw in Cleveland to Smokeout in Vegas, both Kristofer and Amp are off to their own respective event this week and one went well... while the other definitely could have gone better. Come listen to another sex packed weekend of shenanigans and fun times.
EP 165 - Our Most Awkward Sex Stories
Now let's be clear, we're all a little awkward, but I would like to think the two of us, Amp and Mr Kristofer, have some pretty wild and fascinating stories.
Porn stars, onlyfans, even youtube does lead us down a very interesting rabbit hole of awkwardness. So I hope our mistakes can be your... entertainment?
EP 164 - State of Porn and Netflix's Money Shot / w Mike Stabile
The state of porn all over the world is a shaky and uncertain one. But even moreso it's interesting to see how documentaries like Netflix's "Money Shot" show the evolution and dehaminizing practices sites like Porn Hub have for both victims and sex workers.
Today we speak on the new Documentary as well as with Mike Stabile of FSC (The Free Speech Coalition) who word hard for sex worker rights and sexual freedoms in and out of porn all over the world.
EP 163 - Furry Con and Drag Bans Podcast
Come listen to our experiences at Texas Furry Fiesta!!! A fabulous furry con and our fist time being guests at such a heckin fun event. TFF was a blast, from trying on fur suits, to teaching classes to meeting the wonderful Furry Fandom. We also talk about the drag bans and how they will affect more than just the queer community
EP 162 - What Really Happened at Darklands!
Oh honey. We're back and thoroughly through the wringer that is sex events and worldly travels~! From Amsterdam to Antwerp to the lovely event that was Darklands, we have spoofs, goofs and stories about sex, clubs, gear and gays!
EP 161 - Guess That SEXY Historical SLANG
Words, vocab and general slang through the years could sometimes sound a little sexual. Whether a whore of yore, or just a sexy historian. From insults to body parts. What do these words all mean. Come see if Daddy can guess and enjoy the convos we have about the history of sex.
EP 160 - The Fake Friends of WEHO - It wasn't good
So we watched the WEHO show. The show that shall not be named. And it was something. The Best Friends of Weho, or Besties of WEHO, or that one show that ruined Drag Race... no matter what you call it, it's a Real Housewives clone but meant for queer/gay people? Is it good? Is it good representation? Did we enjoy it?!
This started as a media we enjoy, but quickly got us on this tangent just because of how episode 1 hit us, in a weird wayy.
EP 159 - DEEPFAKES and AI PORN are getting WORSE!
A fisting party with lubed floors and Deepfake Porn causing twitch uproar! Ai and the ways in which we're using it is getting increasingly scarier and not just because it's out there, but because we're training it! But can deepfakes and AI be used for good, or is it doomed to always be evil?
EP 158 - Bottoming, Birthdays and Q and A’s
It's a chill week as I'm celebrating Amp’s birthday, so enjoy this Ask Me Anything where we ask Amp (and by proxy Daddy) all the questions you've been dying to ask. From favorite underwear to sex education advice.
EP 157 - The Secret Kinks of Ashley Gavin - AshGavs
This is our collab with the hilariously funny, creative Tiktok sensation, ASHGAVS! Ashley Gavin and I have an unhinged and kinky convo where we unlock and discuss her secret kinks! Ashley Gavin is a stand up comedian based in New York City. She’s been featured on Netflix is a Joke, Hulu, Comedy Central, but is best known for her viral crowd work videos on TikTok and top charting podcast We’re Having Gay Sex.
EP 156 - Sex Nerds Censuses w/Sunny Megatron!
Before Daddy even got a look at the deets, myself and Sunny have fun talking about our community and Zipper magazine as well. From your tops and bottom kinks, to the weirdest ways people have gotten over bad relationships.
Sunny was a delight to unpack this with and she had some fascinating perspectives that Daddy definitely didn't.
EP 155 - The IML Dilemma (IMBB + International Mr Leather Drama)
This week there has been some issues around accusations of trans related issues and the IMBB and IML contests. International Boot Black staff has stepped down and the issue of how we treat marginalized communities, as well as how we treat and uphold or hold accountable title holders needs to change. From international contests to leather politics, this one's a thick one!